Journal+4-Reflection

//How do you act, speak, or dress differently according to which group you are with or whom you are around? Why do you make these adjustments? Do you think it is hypocritical or false to make such changes? Why or why not? Which is the real you?//

I try not to act differently according to which group I'm with. This is because I am who I am and I think that people should accept that. The way I see it, if someone doesn't like me, that's their problem, and I won't change my personality for someone. I do think it's wrong for people to be different around different people because it's like lying. You're not letting someone know who you are. Obviously, there will be slight changes, based on how comfortable you are with a person, but I don't think you should make any major changes. It really bothers me when people totally change who they are around different people, because I may like them sometimes and not like them others. I'm not that open a person, and I rarely tell people how I feel about things, but at least people know about me in general, even if they don't know what's going through my head. If someone's different around different people, then people won't really know them, which I see as a total lie, and I don't think that's okay. The real me is who I am around Kellie, because I'm more comfortable around her than anyone else. She's like my sister, and probably know me better than I know myself.